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Should I take out a personal loan for my wedding?
Logically, it makes no sense for the bride and groom to spend beyond their means.
However, some women take out personal loans worth RM40,000 for their extravagant weddings.
She shared on social media that it was not her decision.
Jan Karwin Kau,
Yang pinjam duit pun kau,
Yan Bayar Futan Pun Kaw.Orang lepas makan, bual2 lepas tu hilang.
Salam kaut pun belum tentu boleh cover duit pinjaman.Kalau yang buat semua tu kau, tak payah nak jaga hati orang sangat.
Moga Allah permudahkan https://t.co/zI1rZvgwna
— ᴍʀ.ᴅ | (@mrdcreatives) November 9, 2022
Her parents had a big wedding.
Sharing on her Twitter social site @ConfessTweetMY It aroused the sympathy of netizens.
Hi Admin, I would like to share a story. Please don’t make my profile public. I have been married for only 6 months. For the past six months, I have cried more than I have been happy. It all started before the wedding when my parents forced me to take out a loan for the wedding.
A woman regrets taking out a personal loan to finance her wedding.
Her husband is a clerk and she is a government contract worker.
She told her parents that she wanted to have a small party with up to 100 people.
Her parents did not agree as she had to invite many of her relatives and friends.
When she resisted the idea, her parents questioned her husband’s ability to care for her after marriage.
My husband (who was then fiancée) was disappointed to find out. He sat down and discussed with his parents how many people he would invite, and they said they wanted it to be held at a hotel, as they counted 1,000. My parents recommended that my husband take out a personal loan of RM40,000 if he wants to get married.
A woman about how money became a condition of marriage.
too late to regret
In the end, her husband took out a loan and had the ceremony.
Her parents were delighted that many of their friends came and applauded the “grand” ceremony.
The women also said they both had a large amount of debt in personal loans.
We are currently struggling to pay our loan. Her husband has returned to work and continues to deliver food. I also sell online as a ‘dropshipper’, but my sales are low and sometimes not at all.
A woman reveals the economic impact of a ‘borrowed’ wedding.
She also added that her husband used to be cheerful, but that is no longer the case due to work fatigue and the constant burden of paying bills.
Sharing received mixed reactions from virtual citizens.
Most people sympathize with the plight of the couple, who seem to be victims of circumstance.
Some say that for Chinese weddings, guests give red envelopes (ang pow) to cover the cost of the wedding.
Hint Karwin, make lots of Chinese friends.
Reason: Chinese/Thai bg angpow banyak.
my wedding (xtermasuk hantaran)
-RM80000do it an paw
-RM90000 https://t.co/XVuROnxXAf— -Shup- (@sboonratana) February 29, 2020
Traditionally, the standard amount to put in a red envelope is at least equal to the cost of a meal at a Chinese wedding reception.
In some cases, couples even benefit from receiving large sums.
read more: RM2,200 per table: Facebook users accuse wedding guests of giving less than RM300 at Ang Pows.
The concept of moderation in Islam
On the other hand, some regret that the Malay mindset that the man pays for the wedding still persists.
Muslim matchmaker Zhuri Yuhi says the hadith (words and teachings of the Prophet Muhammad Pubukh) teaches Muslims that the walima (wedding banquet) should be moderated and moderate. said.
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He said the couple should not start their married life in debt because they already have other financial responsibilities.
Weddings can certainly be done without extensive planning, frills, and fuss.
Islamic dating councilor Zuhri Yuhyi to TRP on spending according to means.
Zuri said the couple’s predicament is all too common.
He said some families splurge on weddings so they don’t “lose face” in the community.
Honestly, parents should also be blamed here…why Nak Mar Sangat? Ni pinjam ah long boleh membahayakan nyawa….dan menyebabkan kemurungan dekat org lain jugak. I think people understand kot klu tak jadi kahwin https://t.co/emDivmt1sh
— Countess Dracula ♡ Megumi (@HimenoKokoro) August 23, 2022
It’s Always About The Money
It is becoming a recent trend among the Malay community for the dowry amount to be based on the bride’s academic level.
The higher the education level, the higher the marriage dowry.
This is said to be the reason why Malay men tend to marry late these days.
Do you agree with this culture?
My sistur kahwin 2017, mas kahwin dan jugak dikira sebagai wang hantaran RM5k. Kalau ikut gambar ni, level SPM. Walaupun ada Izaza. Itupun ayah marah dan cakap tinggi. Tapi abah abang ipor cakap up sikit jadi 5k. Majlis pun ayah tak bagi abang ipor tanggung. pic.twitter.com/zkQtg5R5Bm
— Dr. Haja Hermione (@abcdefghermione) October 18, 2020
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